Wish me luck, and send an extra prayer for us, we need all the help we can get these days.
I just did, Opti. For wisdom, and for strength, and for a supernatural calm in order to convey what must be conveyed.
Do not be deterred. Your post beautifully states the reality of the choices that lie before EACH of you. All you can handle is your end, and you're doing that very admirably.
Let us know how it goes. And when in doubt, remember "I'm really sorry you feel that way," lol.
