You are doing a wonderful job! It takes time when you've been married for as long as many of us have to stop relating to our WAS the way we always have. In the back of my mind I hear the loving voice of H and get shocked each time I hear him now.
You have demonstrated nothing but dignity and grace through all of this.
Hang in there... We'll make it through together.
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
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