Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

She has made a point to me in the past that the only time I do touch her is when I want sex. I've been subtle with touching lately in hopes that she sees that's not all I'm looking for. We've cuddled in bed a few times over the past 2 months. It's been really nice but I don't have any expectations.

I think I will let nature takes it's course for now. How long do couples let this go on for? Is there a way to bring it up without her seeing "red"?

Should I stop thinking about it and work on other things?

Sorry for being all over the place....