I haven't initiated sex with her. She had told me about a month ago that she has no physical feelings for me. I thought at first that this was part of the anger she was feeling but now I'm not sure. She has complimented me at times when I'm getting ready for work so I feel like maybe there is still some sort of attraction there.
When this all began she had asked for space so I took the advise of DR and let her breathe. I felt like I needed to let her make the first move so I don't offend her or suffocate her with my needs. Sex has been the stem of several arguements in the past. She has told me since then that we stopped being intimate because of the way I was treating her and her resentment towards me.
I haven't talked about our relationship with my W because I'm afraid of what she will say. She hasn't been as cold but she is still distant. She actually researched in our state about divorce and it states that you can share the same house but no sexual contact for 6 months. I'm not sure how to breach the subject with her. Still not sure if D is off the table or if she is just following the steps??
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA