So last night my H sent me two emails about some shoes that I had been looking at on Ebay. He's (presumably) with OW. Its not like the emails couldn't have waited until he gets back on Monday. I didn't reply because I wasn't sure what to say. They were just a forward about 'item you are watching is due soon' or something like that.

Is this an attempt at control? Reaching out for connection?


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10