How can you stop her? She is determined to do her own thing. Maybe she should have thought of that before she got married young. Are you going to spend the next 50 years of your life worrying every day that she will leave you? Why not let her go and see if she comes back?
No ultimately I can't force her to stay and if I had to then it's not worth it. Yes we got married young but each of us knew what a big commitment we were making. Giving the extent of our relationship and our bond up we shared, getting married felt natural.
This person is not my W or the girl I had known for the past 10 years. She has done a complete 180. There is a part of me that thinks maybe somewhere inside is still the person she once was and I know...there are times when that person surfaces.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10