Originally Posted By: gucci loafer

Perfect. This is correct. It WORKS on men. Women have a hard time understanding this about men. Give him a challenge.


Men only value what they have to work for in my experience. Women too for that matter. I lost my attraction to H when he rolled over on everything, and I regained it when he called BS and dropped the bomb. No respect = no attraction.


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!