I have to agree--snooping at this point to get gory details does not help anything. If you wanted some motivation to get angry and leave, then go ahead. If you don't want to leave, then don't torture yourself!!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004