On Sunday, we're supposed to meet so that I can give her revisions for the Divorce papers she and her lawyer drew up. I'm not signing them, but here's my question-
I thought about trying to calmly discuss getting her to postpone the divorce (leave it filed, etc.). I feel that if she and the kids move back in and devote our energies to getting out life back on track we can start to move forward. However, I also don't want to push her in the wrong direction. If I wait another week, she'll have me served. At that point I have 60 days to wait it out and then call for mediation. But I truly believe if I could get her to take a breather and work WITH me on taking care of issues (even those "outside" of our relationship), she'd reconsider.
