Hi, whatami, I think you might have posted on my thread before. Have you heard of "the plain of lethal flatness?" Have you checked out survivinginfidelity.com? There is a "healing library" that has useful articles about reconciliation and of course a bunch of other stuff.

I just read that those who are in reconciliation often take about 2-5 years before they are feeling great about things again.

SO YES there is hope! Give it more time...commit to another year but really and truly give it your all!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004