This is important a person in MLC they are looking for any reason to divorce to run, they're on a drug and not thinking rationally at all.
THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!!!
I haven't read all of your posts and we all have a heck of a road to go, but you are at the right place.
Read other threads and something else will stick out and you'll have an Ahha moment.
I have been here since September and every single day learn something else.
The hardest to handle is the letting go, but that really is the only chance you have.
THIS IS IMPORTANT. WHAT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND AND THE LOVE YOU HAD IT WAS REAL and you are the gate keeper to that. YOU HAVE THE ACCURATE MEMORIES.
Protect those by staying out of his way, you are going to hear, see, wonder, hope.
But really the best advice is in the threads of others and the simplest is to just leave him alone.
Keep texts or emails simple, kids and bills and simple, they don't remember much anyway.
And in his mind you are the reason he is so miserable, YOUR NOT.
But leaving him alone prevents him from blaming you or adding justification.
Picture him as a 3yr old having a tantrum. Nothing you do will soothe it, but if you walk away from the kid, well eventually they calm themselves down.
