My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

I have mostly been leaving W alone lately, just because I don't want to come across as "pursuing", based on the advice I have learned from on here. But as I was getting ready to leave with the kids for church this morning, I was running late and the OM called my wife's cell phone as he does every week thinking I was already gone. My wife was busy helping the kids get ready and I tried to call him back to say, "How can I help you?" and "How are you doing on keeping your word?" and confront him about his lying, but I just got a busy signal.

This evening, I decided to GAL a bit and took one of my kids to a park. When I returned, my older D came out to tell me that while I was gone, W spoke for awhile to OM on the phone. I went in to make my younger one some dinner and W noticed that I probably looked a bit distraught and asked me "What?" I said, "Nothing. I don't have anything to say - maybe next week." She kept probing me for what I had to say, but I stuck to "Ask me next week." (I'm thinking after my D's birthday party.) She said, "If it's about my future, I need to know about it." But I just left the room.

I'm thinking I need to get that TSO filled out and I probably need to actually go through with it as much as I don't want to.