He does not really hate you, he hates himself right now. He has no control over his emotions.
I wasn't expecting it, but this brought me to tears. :-/ I wonder a lot WHY does he hate me so much, but maybe you're right. I just find it so difficult dealing with being "the enemy".
M: 34 WAH: 38 (in MLC) Together: 11 years Married since: November 2000 DS: 15 DS: 11 DS: 10 ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009 Living separately since: April 2010