Hi G! So much to catch up on! I think best to nod and say nothing if he apologises. It's not "OK".But saying anything more...well, what's the point? It's also good to tell him you will always love him, even if you decide he's not the one for your future. I totally think it is right he comes to your apartment. You are late term pregnant..you be comfortable, you call the shots. With the bub due anytime now, you are the one in control. He turned your life upside down, now the power comes back to you. (I don't mean to sound like I am encouraging being controlling, it's just a fact that being the mother makes you powerful, esp at birth time & just after).
good luck sunday... i hope it brings baby steps and/or peace ...
May i say with your sitch (and i've been thinking about it alot his past week) , i think NC was a great decision on your behalf...no regrets, G! hugs xxx
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369