Allen,
I know it was a bad move when I gave her a smart remark after her asking me the question. She said it as if I was not allowed to sit out front of our home. I reacted in a immature manner. I slipped up.

I was a calm and easy talking as could be when I brought up the common courtesy talk. I said it and left it at that, I did not argue like she wanted to and I will not bring it up again.

It's tough when all get for a response or acknowledgment are sounds and goofy looks....just not my W and I know I could be much worse off so I will stomach it.


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W had gave me the card from the dog for fathers day early. It was a great gesture, W even got the dog to bring it to me. I said to W "I know it is from the dog but thank you for doing that, it means a lot to me and thank you for bringing her into our lives."

W and I drove up to the water fronts with our bikes hitched on the car, we then rode our bikes along the water front talking ect. I got a lot her little sounds and short snippy responses but it was not too bad. My W fell from her bike going down hill, I rushed over to her in concern , she was laughing about it but hurting. I tried to help her up but she would not help me, I expressed concern and tried to make sure she was OK but did not want it....We stopped at a drug store on the way home, I ran in and got her a first aid kit. W asked for a sling just in case she has to wear it to work tomorrow...I can see/hear it now "My H did this to me"

I helped W run the bath water since her arm is not quite mobile at the moment. W still covers up around me as if I am a complete stranger.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10