As I told the therapist....I don't quite believe that it's going to make a difference. We've been here before and the hurt is deep. She is good.....and she is saying all the things that I have felt for so long and it seems like my H is listening.

I need people like you to tell me there is hope. Because I feel like our marriage is a sham. I'm tired of pretending. I'm tired of losing so much time and so much life.

What's your story, in a nutshell, Allen?

M 39
H 39
1 son, 7

Multiple affairs before/during/and after separation, came clean, went to Retrouvaille, forgave each other, Piecing for over a year, same problems exist, back to counseling