I am trying to figure out whatami how you can say "we've tried everything" and in the same post admit you finally now have a good counsellor..

It would follow from that that GOOD family therapy isn't something you HAVE explored...

To me it reads like you have lost HOPE and are growing wayward... This is NOT healthy for your home...

My advice is for you to make a reknewed HONEST commitment with your new therapist guiding you well for the first time in your lives.

You both sound like you needed someone to help you along like this. I for one have hope that this will make a big difference for you. smile