Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

This morning when W left for work I said "bye" and she said nothing in return.

I talked to OMW today to find out if OM said anything further about reporting W to manager. OMW told me how OM has been an ideal H ever since this "ended." OMW told me how OM makes fun of W. I told OMW to get tape recorder and record OM saying these things and then send it to my W in mail. OMW will try to barrow tape recorder from work.

When W got home from work I was sitting out on the front steps just enjoying the weather, As W was getting out the car she said "What are you doing out here?" with an attitude and stupidly I said in response "Oh, I did not know I was not allowed outside"

Of course this got W upset, I explained to her the dog tore somethings up and I was upset because of it that I did not mean to get smart with her.

W got over it. While W was at work I made a banana cream pie (her favorite) I dont recall if she thanked me...

she told me a little but about what happened at work today then changed and laid down in bed. My W and I had planned to go to a car show but she went to sleep instead. I told W "If you don;t want to go to the car show that is fine, I won't mind going by myself" W never answered me but did eventually get up and got ready.

We went to the car show and I ran into a few of my friends. We talked for a bit, W and I walked around and I took the opportunity to bring up a concern.

I said "I know how things are right now, but I think at the very least you should treat me with the respect you would give to a complete stranger..."hi" "bye" "thank you" "your welcome", you know just common courtesy"

W said "what do you mean" with a little attitude

I said "Well I say by to you in the morning and you say nothing in return"

W said "I say what I feel...and I said bye"

I said "I just want a little respect is all"

W said "Don't talk to me about or have a conversation to me about respect"

I said nothing and headed straight for the car...up to that point I was talking calm and like an adult, W tried to turn it into an arguement and I simply walked away. When we got in the car I calmed my self down and started to talk upbeat again....