now she is confused and not knowing what she wants.
I'm not getting that from what you've written. It sounds like if she is bringing up the topics, that she wants a stable, happy relationship with you. It sounds like she does not want a return to last year.
Keep up your self improvement actions, making your and your wife's lives better. You can't go wrong with that.
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Like I said, I know that at least once she was looking at porn until wee hours. I just do not know what to do with that behavior. She has limited her Facebook and texting lately and that is a good sign too.
Don't do anything. That is up to her. Keep an eye out for opportunities instead. Maybe one day if she's looking at it, you could "pass by" looking sexy and she may follow. If you are lightly flirting back, that *may* be one 180 that she has been hoping for. Just remember...one step at a time.
It is encouraging to hear you are getting somewhere, SSM! Keep it up~
