Hey BD, sorry to hear about the latest. It would be hard because, as I said before, even I had expectations for him. He's giving the most mixed messages EVER! Keep your cool. He is very confused and you can be "above" it all.
This is amazingly hard, but there is no rush at all right now. A year is a long time from now! If so much changed for us all in one DAY, then where could any of us be in even 6 months?