still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

just wanted to say it is interesting that I don't care how I act with WH since I know of my future plan. But I will still put my best foot forward.

also I think WH's excuse on the paperwork is probably "don't have the time" because just now he mentioned how crazy he has been working and "running around" the last few weeks and hasn't had time to get estimates for the lawn. I offered to get some for him and he just said "no, I think it is something I should take care of."

He also seemed to be asking for sympathy- he walked in all stiff (I swear a little exaggerated) and I just said "oh your back is still bugging you?" then he added how he couldn't kick his cold...that he thinks he just needs to rest. Maybe one day of resting would help. I just nodded.

(he doesn't HAVE to take S on Monday, Memorial Day- he could use that day to rest! But no, he asked if he could have him then. I wonder if he is also filling up his time so he "doesn't have time" to do the paperwork.)