Need 'How to' on exposure,,,, and balls to do it

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So now I’m freaking out,,,

She had lunch yesterday with her friend/boss that we have known since we were married, and said they had a good talk. Then she went out with her BF(girl) and also had a good talk, and BF wont return my calls today. Now she says she is going to see her dad for medical reasons, and is either using that as cover to see OM, or is having a good talk with him.

These are the three people I would get the most help from and who I was planning on exposing to. I can’t see that she knew that I was going to expose in next couple days, but it feels like she is laying the groundwork to hit me with something!? L

Or is my paranoia getting the better of me?