Upside your h doesn't want a divorce, but isn't ready to come home. Sounds like you have given this all the time you are going to spend waiting for him.

See what next week brings. He may want to talk before the papers are officially filed. So MLC, I am processing the divorce papers because that is what YOU wanted. Hello, don't you get it it's not what I want, but you refuse to move forward in the fashion I need for our marriage. Hello! Anything in that head of yours. Upside this so much sounds like my own h. It's on their terms. Hello it takes 2 to make a marriage, did you forget that h?

Whatever happens Upside you will be fine.

Booked flight for CA to arrive June 20th and depart June 30th. Staying at my sisters. Should we meet for lunch again? If so, what day might work for you?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"