You can use your router to block specific domain addresse if you want.. or ports...
yahoo chat doens't use port 80, you can block yahoo chat or block the internet completely...
My opinion is that her laptop should not touch the inetrnet until she has agreed to ONLY use it constructively and NOT to covertly harm her family
When your wife starts cheating it is much like a war has been declared in your home... and you have to handle her like an addict who has her addiction as her foremost interest and not the safety and health of her family as a whole...
YOU have to focus on the family as a whole, safety and health etc.. 100% until your wife can carry her 50% again... and right now her addiction is the threat...
When she brings it up.. and she will just tell her the same script.. always have the same script ready for all challenges
1. Infidelity harms our whole family 2. Lying, cheating, sneaking around is not welcome in our home 3. As long as there is an affair, the family will be protected from it 4. End the affair, attend couselling with a good family therapist and stop the destructive behaviour 5. I love our family and I invite you to do the same
Right now she's heavily addicted so taking away any freedom she has will meet with aggression on her part.. you need to IGNORE it and be an ADULT
Just imagine how you would handle a daughter who was hooked on drugs and living in your home...you would cut her off until the lying, the sneaking around, and the destructive behaviour stops right?
