Thanks guys... feeling a little better now! I tend to get really worked up and then have a lot of anxiety.
I only put his clothes by the door. Do you think that's okay? I didn't pack up his guitar, etc. because there is just too much stuff.
I'm not going to leave the house now. I had plans to spend a quiet afternoon reading and I want to take a nap. If he happens to call I'm going to get dressed so that when he comes over I look my best, I'm in a good mood and then I'm going to say hello and promptly leave to run errands and take the dog to the park.
I don't want to answer his email now. Do you think that's okay? I don't really have anything to say and I would like to speak with the DB coach on Monday to get her thoughts.
I was normally the very aggressive "leader" out of the two of us. WH was always much less motivated to do things. I'm trying to think about what I normally would have done with the email...I probably would have yelled at him which I'm obviously not giong to do but in terms of ending phone service - should I go ahead?
Also, I want to split up accounts but its going to be an absolute nightmare. The easiest thing would be for him to sign so he does not have access to one of the accounts and then our bill paying, etc would still be automatically done. Otherwise, I am going to have to contact every single person and redo the account info.
