MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Me too Mila...that would be awful. Was thinking that it is karma for the girls that left our shop too!

I am just thinking out loud and if anyone has any comments, I would be happy to hear them.

As you know, my H filed for a D beginning of March. I filed a counter one almost 5 weeks ago and have not heard anything back. My L called this morning just to check on me and make sure that she is doing what I want in not pushing it through. I asked her about not hearing back from H on it and she said that he does not have to respond.

She asked if he has talked with me or seen the kids or given me any impression that he is tiring of the OW and I said no..hasn't been with kids in a month and does not call me...

I told her that he is the one that wants this so we will wait until he does something. The longer it takes, the longer I will have health ins etc.

So, as long as we are doing ok financially, I think this is the right thing to do...

There have been days where I just wish it was over and done but am willing to play the waiting game for awhile longer!