got home after two weeks in texas and him being rediculously kind to me, calling and asking to pay for my hotel room, 'making sure i had my seatbelt on' etc, to my house being a complete mess and divorce papers on the table. even though we had spoken for twenty minuted the night before i got home, he neglected to mention that i would be being served after a 16 hour drive. so, i had an appointment with an attorney the next day. apparently they corresponded and he indicated some crap about wanting to finalize the divorce sometime late fall. i spoke to him about it last night. i told him i didn't want this and that i would od anything it took to save our relationship. i told him that i would wait but i needed to know we were working twards reconciliation, otherwise, i wante dto just do it. i can;t put my life on hold like this. was that bad DBing? he said he would put something in writing about a proposal for divorce, then he said he thought maybe we needed to be seperated for a while, he was all ove rthe place. he said he would 'meditate on it a while and let me know'. what should i do???
