Privacy used for the purposes of sabotaging a marriage is not something anyone is at all entitled to.
If your wife is going to confront this one moral standards she will LOSE... Let her bring up privacy... She has NO RIGHT to PRIVACY if she's going to use it to HARM people COVERTLY... BAM
That puts that argument to bed in seconds...
I had to deal with that one in my own home... It doesn't fly...
