I understand the post that I can take advice or leave it but that is why I'm here. I need guidance. I want him to get help and I want to work on our marraige. I understand I can't MAKE him do anything but I don't want to do the "wrong" things to make it worse, push him away, etc.
Fine, his stuff is by the door. I don't think I should contact him and tell him it is there. He said he might stop by to get some clothes for work. Should I answer if he calls? If I answer what should I say? Should I be there when he gets there and then promptly leave or should I not be in the house when he gets there?
