I am coming down hard on FIL because he's NOT fact checking his daughter's story and is simply taking it at face value.

And worse, he's meddling in the marriage using text messages daily.. that's not just ignorance, its cowardly too...

OIN TRIED to talk to her FIL and he wouldn't listen... he's just as stubborn as OIN's wife is... OIN's wife and FIL are reinforcing each other's behaviour and have been for some time now...

I you aren't going to help repair a marriage you need to stay out... and meddling covertly with text messages is cowardly

Last edited by Allen A; 05/29/10 03:22 PM.