No one on this board has any more experience or knowledge about your relationship than you do. You are 'allowed' to make your own decisions. And you should. Because you will live with the results, no matter who suggests it. The only professionals are the Divorce Busting coaches. They don't post on this board. You have to call them. This board provides different (sometimes, not always) opinions from people who for whatever reason are interested in marriage and divorce. It's free to take the opinions and it's free to ignore them. Use your judgement.
