I love my husband so much, but I do feel myself detaching from him. The pain has just become too much.

I am beginning to feel stronger, more optimistic about my future. I am very excited about my new place, a little nervous about raising three boys primarily on my own.

For now, I will continue to stand and have hope for my marriage. I do not want a divorce. I will work on myself and care for my children in the meantime.


M: 34
WAH: 38 (in MLC)
Together: 11 years
Married since: November 2000
DS: 15
DS: 11
DS: 10
ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009
Living separately since: April 2010