If your able to provide a nice stable home enviroment and give them all the love and care they need, you should go for it SOTR. I agree this could wake up the WAW if she cares for her children, it also shows where your priorities are makes you look more attractive to the WAW.
They need the stability, and well she may yet come around because she will realize she is always going to be in your life for the twins.
Focus on being a good DAD, doing your 180's, and being happy for the twins. As a matter of fact if WAW doesnt come around this makes you look very attractive to other women who come down the line. Women admire a man who puts their children 1st as it shows really good character and someone who is has all their ducks in a row.
Think about that? I am in the same position, because my WAW is not honestly capable of raising my DD1 in her current mental state. She needs help, meds, more counseling, and I honestly will not take anything less then shared custody of my DD1, because I refuse to put my daughter in a unstable situation, while being weekend fun guy Dad.
Last edited by knightinneed; 05/29/1002:39 PM.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
