it's good that OW might have moved on to someone else, but is your H still in contact with her?

Just because she is "spreading the love" doesn't mean the 2 of them are not in contact. I just want you to rule that out first or you will be banging your head against a wall and wasting your time. I wasted 3 months thinking my WH might just be going through withdrawal from OW because he was still not putting in the effort, still depressed, still not being affectionate with me after "ending" the A and agreeing to NC with OW. Turned out he only went NC for a week! 7 measly days! So the whole time he was still in touch with her!

Of course if you find out that he is not, he could be going through withdrawal. I think after 6 months though he should be snapping out of it! He may benefit from anti d's to help!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004