My Husband Just Left Me

[newmama]

I don't like being told what to do.

time for a "sneak attack." Then surprise him by one upping him... like INFORM him that you have done the following things (like it is your idea). Things that he has requested and then some of your own.

But if you don't want to D, you can stall like the DB coach said. Take your time. (except protect yourself financially first)

Now do you think he is testing you? Does he know you don't like to be bossed around? Does he know that what he was doing will make you angry? What do you think he is EXPECTING you to do right now?

Then do a 180- do the opposite of what he is expecting. (again, this is if you want to stall on the divorce)