Ok so after I sent email yesterday, WH emailed me back with the following. I need help responding appropriately.
In response to asking him to call before coming over he said "No problem. I may need to stop by tomorrow to get some clothes for work. I will let you know."
Then he asked me a series of questions: "1)I stopped by (cell phone carrier) to separate our phone accounts but it is in your name so the sooner you can do that the better. 2) Lastly I'm wondering if you've been in contact with an attorney yet.
I have appt with Dr. Therapist next week but I will deposit as much money as I can into the account so we can start knocking out our debt. I just wanted to keep you informed"
OK so how do I handle all this. I don't like being told what to do. Like him telling me to take him off as sson as possible. Who are you buddy? As far as our debt, we have several credits cards all of which are in WH name we mutually decided to use them in the fall to do some remodeling. I know he wants to pay them off ASAP.
I just still don't like the tone of his emails. It's almost as if he is still under the impression that I'm goingn along with all of it. "so we can start knocking out our debt". I don't give a [censored] about it you idiot. I don't want this. I don't want to help you. I want you to go away and be with your whores and leave me alone. You are ruining your life, you are runing my life. You chose this and I'm going to take as much time as I want to do whatever I want to do.
Any advice people can give ASAP would be appreciated. I'm going to start packign him stuff now in case he comes over later.
