Whoops sorry I should have expanded on that. When I said this:
Originally Posted By: prairiegirl
To me, what you've said about sounds like an unhealthy wall, not a boundary ie) if I don't like what you're saying or doing I'll end our R, period.
What I meant to say was "It sounds like an unhealthy wall, not a boundary ie) if I don't like what you're saying or doing, I'll end our R, rather than asserting my thoughts and feelings to you and asking for the treatment I do want.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
