As hard as it may be right now don't worry about if she is an MLC or WAS right now. The first thing you need to do is calm down.
Now this may be hard for you to understand but NOTHING you do right now can make it better in the next day or so BUT you can do things that make it worse.
Please stay calm. Try and get out. Go for a walk. Cry (not in front of her).
Go out with the kids. Do everything you can to give her space. Please do not follow her around like a puppy dog.
Do not watch her every move - do not look for a sign that she has woken up or realized how wonderful u r. Just don't look at her - let me repeat leave her alone for now.
Did you read the post that OP sent you? Now about you - tell me a little about YOU.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
