I know this about S17 and his GF BUT both only have part time jobs. Her mother is threatening to disown her if she goes ahead with the pregnancy and they have already asked if the '3' of them can live here. That will impact significantly on me in a financial way. I made it quite clear to S17 that D20s help with uni has to be MY priority and he didn't like this but he calmed down a little when i pointed out that MY children who are already born and needing help are MY priority and that whilst I would never not help where I could HIS child was NOT my responsibility.
that sounds horrible but he needs to face the stark truth of what he might be about to let himself in for.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
