But what does setting boundaries have to do with telling your mom? I am just curious- I don't understand!
My Mom was/is a model for not having any and crossing others'. If she knew H wasn't here, she would take over my life. When H was gone the first time, All she wanted to know was how much did he give me. Could she borrow $? If I said I didn't have that much extra in the entertainment (slush) fund, she would tell me to demand more from H. She also expected me and my girls to take care of my brother's kids all the time. She still wants these things but H is a kind of wall she has to climb first.
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And about your H not wanting to be the bad guy for filing for D... what about not wanting to put the nail in his own coffin? I think that is my WH's hang up! (well of course I want to believe doubt has something to do with it- in both of our cases!)
Oh Yeah. It would certainly solve their dilemma if we filed. It would be "What we wanted". Kinda like someone else rippin' off the sticky band-aid. I do not believe he would fight me...except for the marital assets. And Yes of course there is doubt or we would have divorcees a year ago!
Hey I found a fun free fortune-telling site... freaky... described my sitch! Good outcome too! Put a date in your question. I asked Will H return by 7/1? and What's ahead for me this month? facade.com Have fun and don't believe anything bad...That just means you are misinterpreting it!! lol
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