Don't reveal your plans to your wife.. PERIOD... anyone who tells you to inform your wife if your exposure plans before you do them hasn't a clue what they are talking about
It makes no sense to confront your wife before you expose... She's just going to run damage control and prep everyone for you .. making exposure a LOT HARDER to believe...
There is no advantage to revealing your plans to your spouse while she's having an affair... you just DO IT, or don't... no reveal...
