still separated, headed for D?

[courageous wife]

When a relationship ends, you’ll probably go through the stages of grief:
-Denial that your relationship is over
-Anger about the end of the relationship
-Bargaining – for example, “If I could just lose 20 pounds, maybe it will work.”
-Depression about the end of the partnership
-Finally acceptance that it is over and the ability to move on.

Hope these do not go in order...I think I was in denial first, then bargaining, then denial again, then depression, still in denial...maybe finally getting to acceptance!!!