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I'm also curious to what my reaction should be if she denies the A, and demands proof?


Oh you can count on that!

You tell her that you both know she is lying. Do not tell her what you know or how you found out. You look at her in a stern manner and you speak with a low tone of voice.....but you do not spill the beans in how much you know. That causes her to worry a lot more wondering about it. Stand your ground!

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it's just everyone says "DONT SHOW YOUR SOURCES", I'm sure as to not show your hand so they can avoid the same pitfalls in the future, or fly into the 'invasion of privacy' discussion.


Both, and she "will" fly into the invasion of privacy discussion.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!