I always ask, "Who is the client in your eyes?" If she doesn't say, "the marriage" then I move on. She identified our issues quickly and seemed to be very aware of what my W is going through right now. It's a consultation...if I don't like the vibes, I am not stuck with her.
Very good!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
