I have not seen my "husband" since Nov. of 2009 (in court, lol!). The last time we spoke on the phone was a few months ago. Every so often we e-mail about admin. stuff but the last e-mail exchange we had was a few months ago.
The last time I texted with him was in mid April when he sent me ELEVEN text messages to tell me he was moving in with his GF (his two year affair partner) and blah blah blah.
He came by to get the last of his furniture on April 20th of this year. I did not see him but left it in the hall for him.
IOW we have very little contact and I like it that way. We are legally separated since Nov of 2009 but he moved out in April of 2008.
In Jan. of this year he kept e-mailing me wanting to talk as "two people" as long as his GF did not find out. No. I told him I was done.
Two days ago he texted me that he has been e-mailing me since May 3rd (I saw the e-mails but they were all "how are you doing" type messages and not worthy of any type of response) and if I did not want to "talk" to him over e-mail then he might just start exploring other avenues to force us to talk. LOL! I told him "do what you need to do!".
Last night about two hours before he left work he texts me asking me if he could bring me dinner after work. WHAT?! I mean, what the hell? GF out of town or what? Then he wanted to know if the dog was too hot (very warm temps here). I ignored him for about an hour so he texts again that he will bring dinner but leave it by the door so I don't have to see him. WHAT?!
I text him back a short but polite 'no thanks' and within seconds he texts again " I figured you would say no but just thought I would ask"
Ridiculous!
lol me thinks WAH is having buyers remorse. The grass must not be green anymore. It's turning brownish yellow.
He is starting to have some regrets. But he still wants to keep O.W. because he wants to be "sure" to at least have one of you.
But You already told him you won't share him with her. Way to go C.G.
p.s.
how are those lungs? we can't have you wasting precious oxygen cursing at him.
*hugs C.G.*
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
