W won't go for that, the past is why she wants out of the marriage, the past is what she hold on to. No way am I going to be able to break her loose from it.
After W and I returned home we agreed to go on a short bike ride, we ended up at the park where we played a little basketball. W thought she pulled something in her back. W then started to say "if it is not one thing hurting me it is another" W and I began to talk about injuries we both endured as we were younger. It was a great conversation till W started to bring up the past and so I said
You did not need to bring that up in a calm humbling tone. W said "well I am just saying, I have to live with it" and I replied "As do I, it hurts me just as well and I fell terrible about what happened in the past" nothing was said after we just carried on. We headed back home and watched a little TV then played a game...
Went on the computer for a little bit, W aunt uploaded pictures of our wedding and Hallowrecption (Halloween party/wedding reception). We looked at some of the pictures and laughed, I commented on nice W looked in her costume and W said "you told me I looked terrible"
The story behind this was, W and I had planned our costumes for weeks in advanced, the day of things did not go according to plan and W had to compromise big time. Due to the stress of last minute rushing and costume plans falling through I said to my W that the costume looked terrible, never meaning she looked terrible but that is how she sees it today. SO I said to W today
"It was a stressful day and the costume was last minute, it was thrown together, the costume looked terrible, not you."
W then went into shower...
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
