I am so sad by what your H has done to you. H you should be ashamed of the invasion of privacy into your W's private space. She has been trying to save a M while you are doing everything to destroy a marriage to a wonderful woman. Not only has she tried to help your marriage, she has helped countless people including myself to deal with WAS that have no respect for their spouses and family.
You need to really understand the hurt you have done to her and others here that want a place to privately talk about their lives.
Shame on you!!! H take a long hard look in the mirror at the person you are, and then, look at the W you have that is adored by so many. Maybe then you will get it.
mb28 take care of yourself and your children!
(((mb28))) P.S. H come forward and try to explain yourself.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097