CW - I agree that it's very helpful to hear opinions from the guys here...we (girls) are just not wired the same way and seeing things from the male perspective is great.
Cyrena - I did some reading on the "shadow" and some of Jung's theories on other sites...I find it extremely fascinating
I'm not sure if hurting us with their thoughtless actions is deliberate...maybe it comes from their subconscious....
Now opinions please - H emailed me again to do some garden work this weekend...should I let him come and work and ignore him and be "unavailable". I'm kind of thinking, free labor...and I hate cutting grass. Or should I again say that I'm busy and that I can take care of it myself...
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
