And here I am .... H's MLC ....

[fudwoman]

Hi PEI,
Just checking in before the long weekend when I will likely have little or no time to get on here. I agree with what everyone has said so far. I saw my IC today and I told her that I feel like I'm on a small train rail that is very easy to fall off of - that's why it's important to have constant reminders of what your goal is - keep your eye on the prize. It's very easy to begin to imagine that you 'know' where your spouse is at - but that's a trap. We have no idea what's going on inside their head - and often neither do they. Speculation is a dangerous pass time. We just need to keep our focus planted squarely on ourselves. Along those lines - last night I went out and sat at Borders reading the first chapter of Laura Munson's book - left in tears. WOW! I want to have THAT perspective. In the meantime - H - seemed almost miffed at me for leaving (I may be projecting who knows) - not sure what that's about. Again - I'm off the rails - LOL!

I'm seriously thinking of moving over here - I'm not stalking you!!! I don't really believe the main thrust of what's going on with my H is an MLC but I love the support here. We'll see. I have to figure out how to move my thread - ugh!

Take care and have a great weekend.
A