At the very least, why not have a genuine talk with your H now about what is going on. I think some R talks are worth having. Just IMO. (in my case I never initiated it but WH did it for me!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
